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| Me and my new buddy Wilson, clowning around |
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| How to get through the night in a hospital ward |
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| Me and my new buddy Wilson, clowning around |
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| How to get through the night in a hospital ward |
Just having fun with a little humour and stories about my life with a few photographs thrown in.
Headline - Granddaughter & cat team up in attempt to save mans life
It started innocently enough in December with a cold.
This particular cold entered our house attached to a little sweetie named Junie, and it packed a real punch with both Rose and I suffering with it a long while.
For some reason I was slower to recover, and never fully did.
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Then it was January and I started to have very strong allergic reactions to a cat we have had for years.
All of a sudden I had a whole bunch of new, asthma- like symptoms. After a few days of this I went to our family doctor and came away with a prescription for a salbutamol puffer and a requisition for a chest x-ray and a bunch of blood tests as well as an appointment to have my breathing measured.
Then I got the phone call that changed everything.
I had pneumonia, but on the chest x-ray there was something suspicious on my lung, a shadow, maybe nothing, but maybe something serious.
Another chest x-ray led to a referral to a lung specialist and an emergency appointment to have a CT scan in a couple of weeks.
But hey, just in case you’re not freaked out by all this scary news Mr. Petry, your ecg showed some irregularities and I’ve scheduled you for a cardiac stress test next week, yikes!
I should say at this point that I am very grateful that all the tests and doctors’ appointments happened so swiftly. Today is February 20th and my first doctor’s appointment was on January 25th and since that time I’ve had ten different medical test appointments culminating with a CT scan on Friday the 18th and 6 hours in the emergency department for an unexplained very strong throbbing pain in my right side towards the back.
It was a long night, but of course the pain subsided greatly over time and they ruled out a few things and sent me home about 1:00 am Sunday morning to await my referral appointment with a lung specialist. I was told that they would call when they are back in the office on Tuesday or when they see the CT scan.
The ER doctor did confirm that there is some kind of mass on my left lung and after some probing questions from me he did say that he couldn’t see anything amiss in my abdomen even though that’s where most of my mysterious pains seem to be coming from.
A few days have passed and I now have an appointment to see the Lung Specialist at the Royal Alec Hospital on March 14th so that’s great! I also have an appointment to have my lung capacity re-tested at the orders of the lung specialist.
Until then, I am in a kind of limbo, knowing that there is something terribly wrong, fearing the worst and yet trying desperately to hang on to some hope.
Rose has been amazing; kind, considerate and loving as she tries to navigate through this unexpected, frightening time in our lives. I know I’m not helping her state of mind as I get our financial papers, life insurance, will and all the other need to know issues dealt with.
There is a lot to know with two rental properties and their finances and possible issues as well as our own house and all its little foibles that only I know about.
Where is the switch for the furnace?
Where are all the water shutoff valves?
What about those interconnected wireless smoke alarms, they are a pain in the derriere sometimes!
What about the security system, passwords for accounts and apps on my phone, where are those important papers, keys, warranties and instructions, etc?
We tend to assume that we’ll be around for a long, long time but that can change in a heartbeat!
Rose and I have tended to compartmentalize our various jobs around the house and in our marriage and all of a sudden we are realizing that we both need to know the other persons jobs as well as our own.
Right now, poor Rose is getting a crash course on on-line banking and general computer skills and I think she’s now regretting leaving it to me for all these years. I know she’ll be fine, but if the worst happens, feeling confident to take care of these day to day tasks will definitely help her a lot.
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Well the enemy has now arrived!
It’s April now and the weather is beautiful with sunshine every day and the snow melting from the yard at a furious pace, spring is here at last and along with the spring comes the news that we’ve been dreading. Lung CANCER has been confirmed at last.
Where did it come from? What does it mean for our lifestyle and future? How will we treat it and what will that mean for our lives?
These are the questions that we are asking ourselves right now. Today is a week after my bronchoscopy at the Royal Alex hospital and yesterday I received an email from MyAHS Connect, the Alberta Health services website that allows patients to view their own test results online. What a great blessing this system has been as we try to navigate this illness.
When I had the bronchoscopy, the doctor told us to expect a call with the results in about a week and that is today, I expect he will have some kind of a treatment plan worked out so he can offer us some hope along with the news.
I wonder how doctors feel about this new system; I wouldn’t be surprised if I saw the results of my test even before he did!
Speaking of the bronchoscopy, I DID NOT ENJOY IT! Not that you are meant to of course, a necessary evil I suppose. But for a person like me who has not given birth or had much in the way of illness or injury over the years it was a bit of a pain. Once again though, I feel compelled to say that all the health care people, doctors, nurses and support staff have been terrific and I very much appreciate them!
On the other hand, I am a model patient, following instructions compulsively and trying to be as cooperative and compliant as possible, so I suppose that may help things go more smoothly on occasion.
We don’t know yet what he will say when he calls, or what the treatment will be but for now I am trying to be as proactive as possible and I’m chugging our frozen cranberry and chokecherry juice daily in an effort to give my body a fighting chance.
It just so happens that my happy place, (the cabin of course) is covered with berry bushes with branches weighed down by Saskatoons, Cranberries, Chokecherries and Black Currant/Gooseberries (we have both and It’s hard to tell them apart).
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| A berry healthy breakfast |
We have a freezer full of various berries and juice so I’m well fixed for anti-oxidants and those nasty free radicals had better watch out! Chokecherries in particular look promising as a cancer fighter but don’t worry, beyond guzzling juice I plan on doing whatever the doctors and my wife tell me to.
Rose is a bit of a tiger when it comes to treatment and she is determined as can be that between God, the doctors, herself and Chokecherry juice, the dream team can beat this thing.
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I’ve had a while now to get used to the idea that I may have cancer and now that it’s been confirmed the focus shifts to next steps, getting my affairs in order so to speak. Beyond that, what can I do to help my body fight this as much as it can? As a Christian I actually believe in the power of prayer so the prayer will continue and probably get more intense!
Not that it’s easy when it comes to something like this. I’ve prayed for others hundreds if not thousands of times and I absolutely know without a shadow of doubt that in as much as it depends on God, prayers are often answered.
So I will ask for prayer and I will pray for myself, slipping these prayers in alongside all the others that make up my usual prayer life. But still it seems strange to be praying for myself since the usual prayer ratio is about 50 to 1 in favour of friends, relatives, church members, our city, our country and this messed up world. It feels a little bit selfish to bump myself up towards the front of the queue.
One encouraging note is that the cancer is likely stage 1 at this point, meaning that it is of a relatively small size and doesn’t appear to have spread to the lymph nodes or beyond the left lung.
In one of those coincidences that God is famous for, a common cold that entered the house through my little granddaughter got my immune system ramped up into high gear. Helped along by my usual dosing of herbal antivirals, it kicked up such a fuss that I could barely breath!
Rose immediately began a series of “keep the cat” measures that includes using the furminator cat fur remover, rubbing Zoey down with Allerpet, vacuuming the house about 4 times a week and buying a high end air purifier. Yet in spite of all her herculean efforts, my dormant cat allergies finally drove me to do what is obvious to most people.
A few nights with a head that felt like a solid block of wood absolutely forced me past my stubborn male reluctance to see a doctor and ultimately caused the cancer to be discovered at a very early stage, so for that I give thanks!
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Well it’s April 8th and we heard from the doctor today. It’s officially stage 1 and they are booking me in for a Pulmonary Lobectomy in May. Apparently with this procedure called VATS (video-assisted thoracoscopic surgery) one of the 5 lobes of your lungs is removed through three small incisions and after a few days in the hospital, the patient recovers at home in two to three weeks.
Apparently my lung function now is perfect so with one lobe removed I should have about 80% of my current lung capacity after the surgery. This means that my Everest climb is off (just kidding) but otherwise I should be ok for most day to day exertions.
They’re going to do a PET scan before the surgery to make sure that there are no other areas of concern and if all goes well I won’t need chemotherapy, so yahoo on that!
Emotionally, I feel I’ve done ok so far, with the possible exception of a few days ago. I made the mistake of listening to Jason Isbell and the 400 unit sing “If we were Vampires” with headphones on and that led to a good cry as I thought about not being here for Rose and for Junie and Kait and April.
P.S. the song is not about vampires so don’t be afraid to give it a listen.
https://youtu.be/JV7c8V5XLk8
We’ve probably all lived it, or at least seen those movies where the ones left behind have to deal with the loss of a loved one and the thought of doing that to my family is painful in the extreme.
Rose of course believes rather strongly that it is all going to be ok, and if you’ve read any of my other writing, you will know that she is usually right!
Just having fun with a little humour and stories about my life with a few photographs thrown in.
As you may know if you’ve read my blog post “Escape to the Cabin” Rose and I are fortunate enough to have a place out in the country to escape the city during covid. Over the last two summers we have spent a lot of time exploring the little towns and attractions around the area near Bashaw Alberta. This post is about the roving we’ve done and some of the local gems we’ve discovered.
We love our
little 10 acres of paradise but there’s only so much reading and relaxing and
tinkering you can do so we’ve started to develop a routine. When we get out there
on Wednesday or Thursday afternoon, we settle in and plan our “Escape FROM the
Cabin” for Friday. Sometimes it’s just our local little town of Bashaw but
usually it’s a little farther afield.
Bashaw is
just a 10 minute drive and we’ve been there many, many times over the years and
we try to shop there as much as possible to support the local businesses.
| Bashaw Rodeo Chuckwagon Races |
| The Bashaw Museum |
| The Bashaw Canada Day Parade |
This is not the city though! You better watch the posted hours if you want the store to be open and even then, with one restaurant in particular, it’s still a crap shoot. I get it though, for a small family run business it’s important to draw a line and declare that family comes first. We love this one restaurant called “The Noble Fox” (weird name for a Mexican Restaurant) and we often take our visitors there for some great food (when it’s open).
| Delicious burger at the Noble Fox |
| Steak Carnitas at the Noble Fox |
| Bashaw Rodeo Mini Chuckwagon Races |
It’s a little weird to be saying this because I’m sure that Lacombe has lots more to offer, but for us the biggest draws are a thrift store and the best darn donuts I’ve ever eaten at a place called Toller’s Bistro. I may not know much, but I know a great donut when I bite into one and yowza, these donuts are da bomb!
| The Worlds Best Donut! |
I’m kind of
glad that for us the cabin is a three season affair and from November until
April I can wean myself off of these amazing pastries of fluffy, sugary, bliss.
This past
year as we contemplated closing up the cabin, we determined that it was
absolutely necessary to make a last stop in Lacombe to pick up a dozen donuts
to freeze and ration out over the long cold winter. Only this (or something
tasty like it) makes it possible to survive an Alberta winter!
Of course there
are a couple of other things that we love about Lacombe, they have a really big
farmers market on Fridays with food trucks and baked goods and all sorts of
yummies. Plus they have at least one really good restaurant called the Cilantro
& Chive, yum!
We also love
the thrift store because they have a lot of DVDs for sale and they only cost
$.50 each! It feels like such a bargain (start the car!) toting 15 0r 20 DVDs
back to the cabin along with a bunch of kids books for Junie and paying only $10
or so.
We both love
a bargain and with no TV at the cabin we always need a fresh supply of viewing
and reading material. We took some friends and our adult kids to Lacombe on a
couple of occasions last summer and I don’t think they appreciated the thrift
store as much as we did, although when we took them for donuts they sure perked
up!
Not far from
Lacombe is the Ellis Bird Farm and at least a couple of times a year we like to
go there and wander around through the flower gardens, woods and trails
watching the hundreds of birds that nest there. This past summer we took Junie
and Kait for the first time and had lots of fun down at the pond trying to grab
up some pond life in the nets they provided. Next year when she’s three, she’ll
be able to do more activities and we can’t wait to take her back.
| My Ellis Bird Farm Pond Photo-393,000 views on Google Maps! |
| Kait & Junie trying to catch a pollywog |
In our travels we kept
seeing a sign for the town of Stettler and since it was only about 40 minutes
away from the cabin we figured we’d give it a try one Friday afternoon. Sorry
Stettler, but we gave it a shot and your thrift store was closed “because of
covid” and the only donut shop besides Tim Hortons that we could find totally
sucked! I don’t doubt that there is more to recommend the town but for us it
was a bust except for the cool old sign shown below.
| Cool old sign in Stettler |
The house had one of those attics with the little "secret passage" running beside the eaves and us kids loved to creep from one bedroom to the other, trying not to fall through the weird, vermiculite insulation. Such fun with the cousins munching grandma's home made cake donuts (I'm sensing a theme here) and playing in the attic bedrooms.
The town is unrecognizable now but lakes don’t move (much) and their house was adjacent to the North side of the Alix lake and that made it a lot easier to find. We discovered that today Alix has a great little antique store and lots of other shops and a few restaurants that we will have to try out the next time we are there.
Another fun little place that we like to go is “Gracie D’s” antiques and collectibles in the tiny little town of Mirror. This store almost seems to be bigger than the whole rest of the town combined! There are 15-20 small buildings in an enclosed yard and one main building and everything is just stuffed full of, well, stuff.
Much, much
stuff. There’s Big stuff, small stuff, old stuff, very old stuff and shiny or
rusty stuff. Lots of happy rummaging material here!
| Gracie D's yard decorated with old truck & Flowers |
| Old Volkswagen Beetle at Gracie D's |
The shopping
and restaurants in Camrose are great and there isn’t much that you can’t get
there, we love Mirror Lake and the path that goes all the way around it and we
like to stop for an ice cream cone and then take a nice walk around the lake.
We’ve really
missed the “Jaywalkers Jamboree” that takes place during June in Camrose. It’s
basically a small town version of whatever they’re now calling Edmonton’s Klondike
Days/Edmonton Exhibition/K Days, but with free parking and no entrance charge
because it takes place right on the downtown streets.
| Fun on the Carousel - Jaywalkers Jamboree |
| Games & Prizes |
We find that
there is always something to see in Alberta’s small towns and we really enjoy
wandering around checking them out when we’re a little bored and trying to “Escape
from the Cabin”. Christmas is now over and the days are starting to get longer,
oh so slowly, so it won’t be long until we’re again anxiously anticipating
spring once again. We just have to get through January and February and March,
nothing to it!
Just having fun with a little humour and stories about my life with a few photographs thrown in.
I protested vehemently and I argued eloquently.
I even resorted to raising my voice and stomping my foot in protest. But
in the end, somehow, through some kind of feminine wiles that I fail to
understand, I agreed to renovate the kitchen.
Not that it didn't need it because oh boy, it realllllly needed it!
My argument was more along the lines of, "with the state of the
world right now extra money might be better spent on a root/bomb cellar or any
number of prepper supplies like maybe respirators or batteries and I don't
know, copious amounts of toilet paper!"
When that didn't work I mentioned that I had spent the entire previous
winter doing minor renovations of one sort or another and "I am just
really exhausted! I'm supposed to be retired!" And finally, the real
kicker argument, "I don't wanna!"
But as usual I was eventually overruled and after a lot of Pinterest
consultations and discussion between Rose, our adult daughters, April, Kait and
myself; our design began to take shape and plans were made.
Little did I know that Rose’s plans and what I thought were our plans
did not jive at all! We were supposed to go to BC to visit her ailing father
and other family and friends and as cabin season was coming to an end we were
really busy there and in our own yard and there was definitely no time to begin
renovations.
So of course, that’s exactly what Rose proposed that we do, she
wanted me to build a paint booth in the back yard and begin painting all of the
kitchen cabinets before winter!
My usual knee-jerk (or just jerk if you prefer) reaction is to say “NO,
it can’t be done! It’s impossible!” And of course that’s what happened, exactly
as my clever wife had planned. Perhaps she knows me too well, or I don’t know
her well enough because I fell for it again.
Once she had elicited my expected reaction to her outrageous painting
proposal, she quickly backed away from the ruse and deftly slipped in a new
more reasonable idea that I found infinitely more doable and so begins our
kitchen renovation story.
If you've ever done much in the way of renovating,
you understand the domino effect that determines the
order in which you can proceed. For us it is the
extreme lack of storage space that we had to factor
into our plans as we thought about the order that
things had to be done.
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| This is where we are going |
We decided that step one was to remove
our tiny pantry cabinet in the
kitchen and replace it with two Ikea
"Pax" wardrobe cabinets that we
could stuff full of all of the displaced
kitchen items that we would end up
with when we pulled down one of our
upper cabinets and did away with
all the countertop clutter.
These Pax things are huge and when you
install 3 drawers and 4 shelves
inside each one they are amazingly
spacious and practical as a kitchen
pantry.
One issue with them for us is the very
weak shelves that are only
supported on the sides and not the back.
But with my amazing MacGyver skills I
designed a hack that should make
these shelves able to survive unbowed
for years.
I cut 2x2 pieces to fit under the shelves
along the back, painted them white and
put screws into them through
the sides of the pantry. Mic drop!
Right now getting some products at Ikea is a challenge and
it took over a month to get the shelves in and I ended up cutting down a full
sized shelf to make a microwave shelf above our "coffee bar".
The coffee bar is our favourite part of the pantry setup
right now with the little led strip mounted on the underside of the shelf above
it illuminating the coffee area nicely. For once, everything related to coffee
and tea is located together in one place! We love it.
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| The Coffee Bar |
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| Ripping out the old counter |
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| The new counter installed |
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| The weird hole I had to make for the sink |
The countertops cut fairly easily and since we were butting them up against each other and not trying to do 45 degree angles or anything it went very quickly. The biggest job was cutting out the hole and fitting the used white cast iron sink that Rose had found at the Re-Store.
After insisting that we store that old sink in the basement for at least 7 years, she finally found a use for the thing. It is a weird size that just barely fit
into the existing sink base unit but now it looks great!
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| Rose's salvage sink $30 |
As I got the counters all in and fastened down I was standing around admiring how great they looked and thinking, "there, that's done, on to the next step." Of course that's when my lovely wife dropped the bombshell that she now wanted to get rid of the lazy Susan unit in the corner cabinet and replace it with some slide out pot racks.
I may have reacted shall we say "strongly", since I had mentioned it earlier when the counters were off and was assured that no, we weren’t going to be ripping it out. “Are you sure dear?” I asked, “because now would be the time to do it while the counters are off.”
But "nooooooo" I was told, until I was all finished installing the counters and then it magically changed to "YES", I should have known!
As it turned out it wasn’t too difficult to take out with a little help from my favourite power tool, my sawzall, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, that thing is amazing at demolishing stuff.
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| Removing the Lazy Susan |
The biggest problem was that once I cut a hole in the side of the cabinet and Junie our granddaughter learned she could climb inside and make a fort in there, I was lucky to get it done without breaking her little heart. She’s getting used to renovations though and seems to just roll with it, enjoying each phase of the process.
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| Junie in her temporary "fort" |
Speaking of Junie, one day after we looked after her during the renovation and she was “helping me” all day she went home and was busy moving stuff around and when her mom asked her what she was doing her response was. “I'm the papa, making everything nice". She was apparently, “remodelling.” What a sweetie!
The pot rack drawers turned out great and after I was finished I noticed that there was about 6 extra inches of clearance so I made a nice little spice drawer as well. I’m particularly proud of the drawer as I made it for about $10 and it works great.
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| The new spice drawer |
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| And the pot racks |
Next we removed one of the upper cabinets, April helped me replace the kitchen window, (she now loves the Sawzall almost as much as I do) and we completely tiled the wall around the window right to the ceiling.
Next I installed 2 floating shelves that I made myself from the same rubberwood countertops that I used for the counters and if that wasn’t enough, I boxed in the extra space above the cabinet so it goes right to the ceiling now.
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| April helps me tile the backsplash |
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| It's coming along-holes are for the floating shelf pins |
Rose likes to "inflict" I mean "show me" various blogs with ideas for doing some similar renos and sometimes they are even helpful. One of them was about installing floating shelves and since they seemed workable, I shamelessly used their ideas- with a little tweaking of course.
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| Getting ready for the floating shelves |
I drilled holes in the studs about 3 inches deep and threaded 5/8th rods into the holes and then drilled slightly larger, matching holes into the shelves and pushed the shelves on and just like that, floating shelves. Actually that all involved about 6 hours of work and cost more than commercially available shelves but hey, it’s “custom”.
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| The partly finished kitchen |
All that’s left to do on that wall is a little more tile, a crown molding along the top of the cabinets at the ceiling and to paint all of the kitchen cabinets. In part 2 of this little renovation blog we will be doing all of that plus building a new custom hood vent. That should be fun! Not!
So far it’s been going great and we both love the renos that we’ve completed. We are taking a much deserved Christmas break and then we get back at it in January. We’ve got a little bit of time before cabin season starts again in April and this year I’m determined not to miss a minute of it so this renovation has got to be done before then!
Just having fun with a little humour and stories about my life with a few photographs thrown in.